It’s not doing you any favors. No bathroom or car selfies, EVER. Let’s aim for a more visually appealing background.
Your college days are over. Put down the red solo cup. It’s time for an upgrade.
This isn’t grandma’s fridge. We have room for a few more.
Everyone is friendly, outgoing and and active? Seriously? Everyone? It’s easy to be ‘funny/smart/easy-going/sweet’. The trick is to showcase examples as to why you’re all these adjectives. “I’m active and outdoorsy” turns into “Me and my morning coffee like taking hikes up to Council Crest. Nothing beats the view.”
People won’t think you’re being casual and low key. They’ll think you just don’t care, or worse, you aren’t worth dating. You want to invest in people who invest in themselves.
If you don’t know the language, you won’t be successful. There are as many dating platforms as there are food carts in this town. You’re not going to expect spring rolls at the fried chicken food cart, right? Same logic applies.